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I am the one, the first, the Original Blog-Surfer. I roam around Blogdom and leave comments on whatever Blogs I want. If I happen to comment on your Blog, don't get bent out of shape...be honored.

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Location: Missouri, United States

Quiet until I know you. Polite even if I don't like you. Cynical all the time. HATE gossip with a passion. Firmly believe that there are always two sides of a story and anyone who makes a decision based solely on one side is acting like a fool. I love to read, so if you have read a good book, let me know.

Saturday, May 27, 2006

"If something sounds too good to be true...

...it usually is". Rule of thumb

"If someone is asking for money, and needs the answer right away...always say no. If there is any pressure and no time to consider, there is usually a reason for that". My dad


Usually I abide by these two "rules" and they have saved me a lot of money and worry, but a little while ago I went against both these saying, and got burnt. I have talked about my fascination for free stuff, so that kinda helped in my downfall. Here is my story...

In December I was listening to the radio while driving and I heard an ad that said you could get $1000.00 by participating in a diet study. It is called the "One Day Diet" (or ODD) and the main premise is here. I am not huge by any means, but I could lose the 'lil buddy I am growing around my waist, and get a grand for it??? I wrote the 1-800 number down, and then promptly lost it.
It wasn't until March that I heard the ad again but this time it gave a website... www.dietstudy.com. So I went here and it sounds good. The "Real Life Weight Loss Study" (or RLWLS) makes you take a little survey in order to make sure that you are really trying to lose weight, not just goofing off in order to get the money. The survey is pretty stupid because you can put down the "right" answer, and pass.
So I took the survey, got the special number at the end and called the 1-800 number.
I got a guy who was, of course, very nice and explained the diet to me, talked about what it is going to look like everyday, and asked me the same questions that the survey already covered.
He then explained that they will send me pills for energy, hunger depressants and multi vitamins. I need to stick with the diet for 90 days, write a testimonial and then I will get my 1000 dollars. Sweet. When it comes to food I have no problem with self-control or will-power, so I knew staying on the diet for 3 months wouldn't be a big deal.
Then he said that since they are providing the pills they don't want to send out all that product and have someone welsh on the deal half way through so they need to charge a deposit (of $150.00) for the pills. If you make it through the whole time then you get the money back along with the grand.
Warning lights went on with that, but it made sense, so I ignored the warnings and gave him my card number.
With-in a week I get my stuff. Excitedly I open it up. I pull out the first paper and there I read. "participate in the One Day Diet and get 1,000** Dollars".
What the crap were the ** there for? Nobody on the radio, website (which you can still read for yourself) or phone said anything about **. Which usually means certain conditions. But I continued reading on. I find out that I need to go to a doctor, not once but almost 6 times during the diet in order to weigh in. HMMM, funny no-one mentioned that little aspect to me. How much is that going to cost? You have to send "before" pictures in and if they aren't "80% professional quality" then you are disqualified and lose everything. HMMM, who decides that? If everything isn't turned in to them in 10 days or less you are disqualified and lose everything.
Well, since I am involved in a missions organization there is a doctor here that donates his time, so I didn't have to pay for a visit, (or six of them that this RLWLS required) but when I went to see him he said that they were requiring over $300.00 in labs!
At this point I am getting the feeling that I am getting screwed. I called the 1-800 number that they give you for diet support info, and it is canceled, they gave me a website address that I can "e-mail my questions and they will get back to me". Another bad sign. The only reason you stop talking to people directly is because you don't want to deal with pissed off people. HMMMM...
So I went to the website and they had a list of FAQ and one of them they said that you no longer had to get the labs done. OK, good. I am already 150 in the hole, 300 more wouldn't be a good idea.
Then I read some vague things that said the pills they sent were only one months supply, and they would auto ship the rest every month. HMMMM... does that mean they will bill my card again every month? Nothing said anything like that, but it was vague enough to make me wonder. So I e-mail that question. Surprisingly I didn't get an answer.
It was making me leary enough that I wanted to send it back and get my money back, but then I read that if you decide at this point to not do the Real Life Weight Loss Study, you can't get back your money. So I started the diet and was in my third day when I figured out a way to get more info from them...
I went back on the www.dietstudy.com website, got a new "special" number and called in as a new costumer. Everything I gave them was fake, and I got talking to a new guy. This time I could ask questions that I never even thought about the first time, but I could pretend that I knew nothing. This guy was a bit more open. He told be about the pictures, the doctors and the deposit. A whole lot more info then the first guy gave me. This second guy was only going to charge me $115.00 deposit as opposed to the first guys $150.00. HMMMM...do they get to keep whatever extra money the squeeze out of people?
So I asked if the $115.00 covered all three months worth of supplies? Oh, no, they then charge your card $75.00 every month!!! Of course you will get it back (if you aren't disqualified for any number of reasons...)
He mentioned the $1,000.00 and I remembered the ** and I asked if every person who participates in this study will get the money. Oh, no, only 1,000 people who they choose gets the money.
He then went on to tell me how good the pills I have to take, taste. He didn't know that I had already been taking them for a couple days.
"Yeah, they are vanilla flavored and they taste just like a vanilla wafer cookie."
THEY FREAKING DO NOT!!! They taste like vanilla flavored crap! But of course I couldn't tell him that, so I just hung up on him...
So here I am, $150.00 dollars in the hole. With $150.00 more coming because of the next two months of supplies being shipped. If I manage to dodge all of the disqualifying factors, (which would be amazing in itself) then I might get $1,000.00. MIGHT
Bull crap. I did a stupid thing, but I am not THAT stupid.
So I canceled.
If you have taken the One Day Diet and it worked for you, cool. It might be a good thing. But I feel the Real Life Weight Loss Study is a bunch of crap. So if you hear of your friends thinking of making an easy grand through this study...tell them to read this first. It might save alot of people alot of money...

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Ever Feel Like This?

I Often Contradict Myself

I often contradict myself.
Oh no, I never do.
I argue with me day and night.
That simply isnt true.

Oh yes it is. Oh no it's not.
I do this all day long.
Oh no I don't. Oh yes I do.
That's right. No way! It's wrong.

I'm really quite agreeable.
I argue night and day.
I love to be around myself.
I wish I'd go away.

So if you see me arguing,
it's certain that you won't.
I like to contradict myself.
I promise you I don't.

--Kenn Nesbitt
Found at this cool website.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

New Directions

So, graduation is in less then two weeks. I didn't think that I had enough credits to make it, but I got an e-mail about two weeks ago letting me know that "they" looked over my transcripts and I can receive my B.A. That is awesome. It has taken me 6 years to complete this 4 year degree, so I am just happy that it is over with! And now it looks like I will be heading into a couple more years of school. My B.A. is in Inter-cultural Communications, and now I want to combine that with a degree in Journalism.
We'll see what happens. I enjoy writing and to do that full time would be great. I am not in the slightest bit interested in writing fiction, but I like taking a bunch of facts and making the readable. I love to read fiction, but I can't even imagine the work it takes to start from an empty paper and make-up people and places and histories and....yeah, beyond me!!
So the next couple weeks I will be contacting magazines and seeing what is required to work for them. Do I need an A.A.? Do I just need to take some journalism classes?
Kinda exciting, yet as always, new paths in life are scary, especially when I have a family in tow!

Thursday, May 04, 2006

Good Gravy

Dang I have been gone from this for a while now. I have a good excuse though. I have been gone from home for a while now! I and my family traveled from Missouri to Wisconsin, flew to Idaho via Phoenix, then drove to Southern Oregon, and then reversed the trip...while visiting people the whole way!
It has been a good month, but a super long one! This is the first time that we have seen all our family and friends since the death of our daughter 5 months ago, so with every person we visited, we re-lived our experience to some extent while showing pictures and sharing our story. We had two different memorial services for Anarazell in different states, so we now need to take a vacation in order to relax from our "vacation"!!
Our family is slowly healing. I was watching my wife share with her siblings, parents, and grand-parents. I could see in her face the joy and love that she was feeling for our daughter as she was showing them all the pictures, clothes and other treasures that she has of Anarazell, and it broke my heart.
She wants to be showing off her baby, not little plaster "molds" of her hands and feet. She wants to let them meet her baby, not try to describe to them through pictures how perfect she was.
It was hard to watch her, and at the same time I was so immensely proud of her.
Well, I am back, and I have plenty of things to rant...I mean talk about! Stay tuned!